I have been discussing this a lot with my girlfriends recently and we have not been able to figure out a solution, so I am posing it to all of you…if anyone even reads this.
The perk of being single is that you can date great hot men, right? Except that I haven’t so much as gone on any dates or even really flirted much since my breakup. So I am just single and lonely and that just sucks. A lot. I have made the executive decision that I need to put myself out there and stop waiting for a great guy to just fall into my lap. So last night some friends and I went to a bar downtown. I wore a cute top, my sexy pumps, had a great hair day, and was feeling hot and ready to get out there!
Except that we only got hit on by really sketchy guys. The kind of sketchy where they don’t even say hello or give you a nice smile, but just point to the chair next to them and expect you to awkwardly join their table. The kind of sketchy where, when you are waiting for your friend outside the dirty bathroom, they say, so can we keep you company while you wait for your friend? As if I have a CHOICE in the matter! And my personal favorite: the guy who hit on me and my friend at the SAME TIME and kept waiting to see which of us would go and which one would stay with him. Except that we both left, because that was SKETCHY.
Overall the night was frustrating and we spent the whole time trying to think of ways out of numerous awkward situations. I realize that it was just one night, one bar, and we were probably trying too hard, but I don’t think that a bar is the way to pick up guys. At least not guys who want more than just sex.
So the $64,000 question is, how does a girl meet a decent, cute guy?
